tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17503077754484537212024-03-12T19:07:52.438-04:00Deb's AN AdventureLife after an acoustic neuroma brain tumor ... rants, riffs and laughsDebbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.comBlogger221125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-81052260915972050922012-06-12T10:53:00.000-04:002012-06-12T10:53:18.620-04:00Needles - the next frontier!Next week, I will be heading into NYC to get botox injections at NYU. Jackie Diels will be there to work with the plastic surgeon who will be doing the injections. And, no, this is not for wrinkles! Although that would be a nice benefit, come to think of it... I will be getting botox to try to get some of the last few "paralyzed" spots on my face and neck to release. If successful, it will even out some of the asymmetry in my face and will get the nerves to communicate properly with muscles. Stay tuned...Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-915766834846668562012-04-30T19:58:00.000-04:002012-04-30T19:58:06.229-04:00Four Years...Wow, I cannot believe it has been FOUR years since I had surgery ...
Tonight I enjoyed a great dinner of grilled salmon, Greek salad and black rice - a far cry from the the tepid apple juice that I could barely keep down 4 years ago! I was somewhat naive four years ago, thinking that I was going to have brain surgery, followed by a speedy and bump-free recovery, then go on living my life exactly as before. Wrong! Life has definitely been different than I envisioned, but that is not to say it has been worse.
In some respects, I am still finding my way with the "new" me. But, there have been so many positive things that have happened along the way! There is a part of me that really believes that things happen for a reason, even though the reason may not always be clear right away.
I still struggle at times with being deaf on one side. The BAHA has been a huge help, but I do miss having two hearing ears sometimes. And I still don't like to see pictures of myself with my "new" smile. I know that other people don't really notice the smile or the asymmetry in my face, but I know it's there. And the dry eye - man, that drives me nuts sometimes! I would LOVE to be able to see things with my right eye without them being one big frigging blur. And I'd like my face to just feel "normal.
But, in spite of those things, I have so many things to be happy about ... first are the friends I've made in the acoustic neuroma world. I've made friendships that will last the rest of my life with people I'd have never met otherwise. And, somehow, through this whole experience, I've rediscovered my passion for photography. And I can't begin to describe what a huge gift that has been. There is something about having a camera held up to my eye (left, of course) that just brings me such joy. There are many other things that I count in the plus column - too many to recount here.
So, today is a good day - a celebration of sorts. It marks the first day of my "new" life!
DebbiDebbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-82030552846953626292012-01-18T12:19:00.000-05:002012-01-18T12:20:19.000-05:00I've been absent around these parts lately ... not because anything is wrong but because I've been busy. As I mentioned in a previous post, I have been pursuing my passion for photography during the last year. Lots of fun, lots of new learning. I joined a photo community called Blipfoto where I post my favorite picture each day. My personal goal is to post a picture for 365 consecutive days - I'm halfways there now. The photo's to the right of this blog are the 3 most recent pictures. If you click on the filmstrip, you'll be taken to my blipfoto journal where you can read a bit, see some pictures, whatever. Lots of very talented photographers over there, so enjoy yourself!
I am coming up on my 4 year brain-tumor anniversary - holy cow! Hard to believe it has been nearly 4 years. I sure never expected some of the long term effects of this whole adventure. However, it's not all bad, and I've made some great friends along the way ...Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-57974733543145330452011-10-25T15:22:00.001-04:002011-10-25T15:22:19.560-04:00Birds and Brain Tumors<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiToweUNOfUlBAlk_dGFxRDO3_UWXfMNGUJsecvkeT-nzf0fm3dGLy3VrXO9csdjHsIpB_ypaog4znw46p-X9WAh9vxtfAggfkf5SITFTu_eSw-rBh3ZfasCQq39eyce6vyLKqgWKU_lwo/s1600/Blog+10.250001.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear:left; float:left;margin-right:1em; margin-bottom:1em"><img border="0" height="200" width="197" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiToweUNOfUlBAlk_dGFxRDO3_UWXfMNGUJsecvkeT-nzf0fm3dGLy3VrXO9csdjHsIpB_ypaog4znw46p-X9WAh9vxtfAggfkf5SITFTu_eSw-rBh3ZfasCQq39eyce6vyLKqgWKU_lwo/s200/Blog+10.250001.jpg" /></a></div>I used to love watching birds. In fact, I had bird-feeder central when I lived in St. Louis years ago. Then, I moved a few times, got busy, moved to a part of the country with seed-eating bears and ... well, then there was that pesky brain tumor thing.<br />
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Anyway, about a year after I had surgery, I decided that I wanted to take up another hobby - photography. I bought a kick-ass digital slr and started relearning everything I ever thought I knew about photography. Then, this year, in my quest for more things to photograph, I suddenly thought ... BIRDS! And, we live right on the edge of the forest, so it is bird-bonanza. Willie accuses me of never doing anything at less than 1,000 miles an hour. And, because I never want to disappoint that man, I went out and accumulated about 3,000 bird feeders and a couple of tons of seeds. Yep, bring those birds on! (slight exaggeration, but I believe in literary license.)<br />
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You'll remember part of my brain tumor legacy is that I am deaf on the right side. Good news is that my left ear hears things really well. Bad news is that mono-hearing means no directionality. Good news - I can hear those birds singing and chirping the minute I walk out the door. Bad news - I have no freaking idea where they are. Life's funny isn't it?<br />
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Chirp.Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-40566558352241933182011-09-29T15:56:00.000-04:002011-09-29T15:56:52.313-04:00Jackie Diels and My SmileInstead of a New Year's resolution, I am making a fall resolution - to blog more often! I've been horribly remiss this summer, not because there wasn't a lot going on, but maybe because there was TOO much going on. <br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgo4aaHWhjxbF3d_aXhic5RzcRkY2U-U_a1oGPTMDdrXhye4fbz_j1kCOBReS4QvRB10b0ovYASunDM1NZ2Q2rW0WDpn0gLdmeCyw3hUXYEzKmikfpQFkVi2-gyArn6v6MKZG2D3mA93ag/s1600/Blog+9.290001.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear:left; float:left;margin-right:1em; margin-bottom:1em"><img border="0" height="200" width="194" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgo4aaHWhjxbF3d_aXhic5RzcRkY2U-U_a1oGPTMDdrXhye4fbz_j1kCOBReS4QvRB10b0ovYASunDM1NZ2Q2rW0WDpn0gLdmeCyw3hUXYEzKmikfpQFkVi2-gyArn6v6MKZG2D3mA93ag/s200/Blog+9.290001.jpg" /></a></div>Anyway, I started my day off today with a video chat with Jackie Diels, who is (in my opinion) the BEST facial re-trainer on the planet! You may recall that I went to visit Jackie 18 months ago <a href="http://debsanadventure.blogspot.com/2010/02/pictures.html"> pictures here</a>. I was so blown away with what she was able to teach me that I went to her six months later for a follow up visit. By the way, she is in Wisconsin and I live in NJ - so that tells you how great I think she is! The improvement I've seen in my face, and especially my smile, is amazing. My smile won't ever look quite like it did pre-brain tumor, but I am pretty darned happy with my "new" smile. And, for that, I have to say "Thank you, Jackie Diels!"<br />
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If anyone reading this wants more info, please shoot me an email or message me from here. <br />
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I'll be back soon with another update!Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-83304836602738347392011-08-19T10:00:00.001-04:002011-08-19T10:01:20.503-04:00Photography and Acoustic Neuromas<a href='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyJoqo7KWngGWA8rZEX9Se8IqJDQgqqSGYRryabB7eBUsrIWz-foITD4483M_SoFBBjq8aZRhGzhQIGKXyUzTfbNoM5DMsT2EuBS0aEsuKLc8ezy9LQdTfiwFSNq5oG9wgGk-JbyMLjUw/s1600/PD_0013.JPG'><img src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyJoqo7KWngGWA8rZEX9Se8IqJDQgqqSGYRryabB7eBUsrIWz-foITD4483M_SoFBBjq8aZRhGzhQIGKXyUzTfbNoM5DMsT2EuBS0aEsuKLc8ezy9LQdTfiwFSNq5oG9wgGk-JbyMLjUw/s320/PD_0013.JPG' border='0' alt=''style='clear:both;float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;' /></a> <br />
<div style='clear:both; text-align:RIGHT'><a href='http://picasa.google.com/blogger/' target='ext'><img src='http://photos1.blogger.com/pbp.gif' alt='Posted by Picasa' style='border: 0px none ; padding: 0px; background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 50%; -moz-background-clip: initial; -moz-background-origin: initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: initial;' align='middle' border='0' /></a></div>Is it really already the middle of August? I saw a few yellow leaves drifting slowly to the ground yesterday which can only mean one thing ... fall is just around the corner. Yikes.<br />
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You may remember that one of my post-brain tumor gifts was rediscovering my love of photography. I bought a good digital SLR and started learning the world of digital photography. What fun it has been! This summer, in particular, I've been really pushing myself to learn new techniques and to find interesting things to photograph. Lots of fun. <br />
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The only minor aggravation is that, as those of you with balance impairment know, if I don't look at the ground where I am walking, I tend to tip over. Well, now, think about that for a minute... if I am looking all over for the next great Kodak Moment, I can't very well be watching my feet, can I? And, keep in mind that I don't really see anything other than a big, fuzzy blurr from my right eye in the best of conditions. Now, I've had over 3 years to get used to this whole balance/vision thing so you would really think I'd be better at it. Based on the flailing and careening I've been doing lately, I'm going to have to say that the balance still needs some work. Ah, the sacrifices we make for our art...<br />
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By the way, the humidity is wreaking havoc with my hair, too. See how frizzy it is?<br />
Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-24084015498961379122011-07-26T08:27:00.001-04:002011-07-26T08:27:42.553-04:00Why Shampooing Can Be Dangerous...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgumg4Al3p4P99lSyQweVrE9BxI5TERdL-Jzc2SDW5I0leOsvbvJEKQMR2NjEUqUl97hEdK981LB1nIXCYdyu3rX2RrHnTSUKDidOfKPg2iw-pkIKMIhL4LqsSKgys9uQr-uEyXHQlHhkg/s1600/PD_0012.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear:left; float:left;margin-right:1em; margin-bottom:1em"><img border="0" height="200" width="152" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgumg4Al3p4P99lSyQweVrE9BxI5TERdL-Jzc2SDW5I0leOsvbvJEKQMR2NjEUqUl97hEdK981LB1nIXCYdyu3rX2RrHnTSUKDidOfKPg2iw-pkIKMIhL4LqsSKgys9uQr-uEyXHQlHhkg/s200/PD_0012.JPG" /></a></div>We have cats. And, being cats, they like to toss out the occasional hairball, usually in a place that has the highest visibility or is the most heavily trafficked by human feet. So, one of our angels barfed up a hairball on the stairs (carpeted in off white, need I say more?) I carefully teetered on the stairs and used a little carpet shampoo-er to clean up the spot. Returned the Little Green Machine to it's home in the upstairs closet and then proceeded back down to go about my day. One minute I'm on the steps heading down and the next minute I'm on my back heading down. You see the problem, right?<br />
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So here is a note to my self... NEVER wear rubber soled flip flops on wet stairs. N E V E R. No bones broken, but my dignity took quite a beating, and look like I've gone a couple of rounds in a boxing ring. <br />
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How's your day?Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-29636807486655874382011-07-19T11:42:00.000-04:002011-07-19T11:42:30.264-04:00Genetic Stapling<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSp0U8RZOQE_V08PwLlaOrL8daedrOdFOKB_X5Egk9QOPiJyOvkhYAJJuL6n4RRuBMS4IXxOIGDU5K4n7nZHVGAdPlVsucc_eWAEJZ7tHybqti7Gn31Z3xSZn0y6oXPOerTaS2utqnKiQ/s1600/PD_0006.JPG" imageanchor="1" style=""><img border="0" height="200" width="188" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSp0U8RZOQE_V08PwLlaOrL8daedrOdFOKB_X5Egk9QOPiJyOvkhYAJJuL6n4RRuBMS4IXxOIGDU5K4n7nZHVGAdPlVsucc_eWAEJZ7tHybqti7Gn31Z3xSZn0y6oXPOerTaS2utqnKiQ/s200/PD_0006.JPG" /></a></div><br />
I am going to start by apologizing to my hubby - sorry, babe, I couldn't resist.<br />
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We've recently moved my in-laws to a new home in a new state, which involved packing up their worldly possessions. What we came to realize is that my mother-in-law really likes staples. I mean she REALLY likes staples. So sorting through her paperwork has involved pulling a lot of staples out of clumps of papers. We've kidded her about it and accused her of never meeting two pieces of paper that didn't deserve to be stapled together. <br />
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So, we all had some laughs and life goes on. Right? Well, maybe not... Last week I was overcome with an urge to clean up some of our old files. I decided to start with bank statements from 10 years ago. What I quickly remembered is that my hubs (love you tons, honey) likes to save ALL the old ATM receipts. And, let's face it, there is NO reason on earth to save ATM receipts for years. And, not just save them, but staple them to each other and to the bank statements - with HUNDREDS of staples. I sprained all of my fingers and broke three staple removers ... and that only got me as far as 2007. <br />
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Yes, folks, apparently stapling is hereditary, some sort of strange gene mutation. I only hope it's not contagious.Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-450190728602501842011-07-09T13:24:00.000-04:002011-07-09T13:24:52.062-04:00What Happened to Me?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuGQaUN7B6J0MeAignM3qKHOw8lqz-qqmLEWv-F0ls5jWif1IxBjxWHT8M0pUdsocQl99sMCgfWTL02FU4Ndz60NVgIAI5-qKwUTPSRHRrKVnpGJvSL0lOWeV2dcTXKifeYOelXSODnV0/s1600/PD_0003.JPG" imageanchor="1" style=""><img border="0" height="200" width="152" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuGQaUN7B6J0MeAignM3qKHOw8lqz-qqmLEWv-F0ls5jWif1IxBjxWHT8M0pUdsocQl99sMCgfWTL02FU4Ndz60NVgIAI5-qKwUTPSRHRrKVnpGJvSL0lOWeV2dcTXKifeYOelXSODnV0/s200/PD_0003.JPG" /></a></div>I used to be cool. Before my hubs swept me off my feet and moved to the Jersey "burbs," I lived in Mid-town. (Manhattan, of course, because it's the epicenter of cool.) I still retained my essence of coolness out here in the wilds of Jersey. I dressed in "cool" country-chic. Well, okay, I dressed in Levi's, but still...<br />
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Then along came this annoying brain tumor and I ended up with a funky eye that doesn't make any tears. Hence the globs of goo in my eye at all times. All the goo creates a hell of a glare, so bright light really hurts the peeper. Sun glasses are a must. So, I quickly purchased prescription sunglasses, but it got incredibly annoying constantly switching between regular and sun glasses. Then, one day, in a fit of utter madness, I went online (because it'd be too embarrassing in person) and ordered ... Fitovers. Yes, you know what I'm talking about. This is what the seniors in Florida wear. <br />
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I've tried my best to make these cool, but no matter how I cut it, I look like a bug with giant shiny eyes. I'm terrifying. I am wondering if I should dye my hair blue. What the Hell happened to me, and has anyone seen my "cool?"Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-46610935039405981782011-06-22T14:16:00.000-04:002011-06-22T14:16:17.750-04:00Every DayI stopped in the acoustic neuroma patient forum the other day and was catching up on old friends, saying hi to some newly diagnosed people, when I read a post that kind of got me to thinking. The post was from a guy I respect very much who had a massive tumor removed a few years before I entered the brain tumor scene. He is always able to articulate so well what sorts of things "newbies" could expect, and always does it in a way that isn't frightening. Well, okay, I know that there really isn't anything about a brain tumor that ISN'T frightening - but you know what I mean!<br />
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The comment he made was "It is not something you 'get through', recover and move on as if it never happened. Even with the best outcomes, as I experienced, a few 'reminders' are still part of my life." It got me to thinking...<br />
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Most of us in this little club have moderate to total hearing loss on the tumor side. Not something other people can see, but something we all have to make accommodations for every single day. In my case, I get up in the morning and snap a little metal box onto a metal rod that is implanted in my skull. Great to be me.<br />
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The unlucky few who have permanent nerve damage may start their day, as I do, with a blob of lubricating gel in the eye to keep it from drying out. And, those are the same people who have a blast of panic when they realize that they've left the house without eye drops/gel. <br />
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Mind you, I am not complaining. There are SO many people dealing with much worse things every day. But, I do sometimes long for my "old" life, the one that didn't involve bionic ears or eye gel. Just sayin'...Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-32388472251487441732011-06-01T16:42:00.003-04:002011-06-02T08:50:08.555-04:00It's All a Matter of Balance...I remember before I had surgery, the surgeon told me that I would be likely to experience "disequalibrium"... And, I thought to myself, "disequal-WHAT?" Basically that is just a fancy way to say "sorry, kid, your balance is going to suck."<br />
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Most of the time, I actually do quite well. I've adapted to having only 50% of a normal person's ability to balance. For example, I don't try to walk around in the yard in the dark, I always use the railing when I'm on stairs, and I have night lights strung out all over the house. Works pretty well. I know that when I am tired, I have to be more careful, and that when there is a lot of sensory input happening, my balance will get much worse. So, where am I going with this?<br />
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This past weekend, the hubs and I went to the Bronx Zoo. We both needed a diversion and it was kind of like a mini-vacation. Now, if you've never been there, it is a huge place with lots of indoor and outdoor exhibits. Well, we got out little map and headed out on our grand adventure. One of the first things on our map was an exhibit called "Madagascar" - whoa, cool! In we went. <br />
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Now, let me set the stage. The floor was made out of some sort of rubberized material which gave it a slightly squishy consistency. It was dark (simulating night time, I guess). It was REALLY crowded. And, it was REALLY noisy. You with me so far? Uneven surface, dark, and mega-sensory input. All of a sudden, my world felt like an amusement park ride. I grabbed Willie's arm in a death grip, while trying to dig my fingernails into the fake rock wall on my other side. I experienced a fear-induced blast of adrenalin, and a strong desire to claw my way to safety. Happily, we made it out upright and intact. Well, other than the hubs' dislocated shoulder from where I tried to wrench his arm out of its socket. <br />
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I am happy to report that the rest of our day was spent upright and oriented - and did not include anymore dark exhibits. Sorry, no bat house. And, no Mouse House, either. Nope. Strictly large mammals for me. Large outdoor mammals.<br />
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http://tribalvillages.org/deaf-essays/single-sided-deafness.htmlDebbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-10259284005004412932011-05-12T09:32:00.000-04:002011-05-13T16:39:09.715-04:00BAHA - Ha HaFirst, let me say that I am very, very happy with my new digital ear! It is interesting that when I am wearing it, I don't even notice that I have it on. By that, I mean that I don't consciously "hear" anything differently. But, there are times when I am struck with the sudden realization that I am hearing something that I never would hear without the BAHA. Case in point - I recently had a group of my girlfriends over and we were all sitting around the dinner table talking. And, let me just say, they can talk a LOT. Well, everyone was talking at the same time, which is usually death for me since all I hear are random words. As I was sitting there, I suddenly realized that I could hear the friend on my deaf side PERFECTLY! That was one of my big (B)AHA moments.<br />
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And, of course, as with all things brain-tumor related, there are also funny moments... I was recently putting some things in the back of my little SUV and as I was leaning in to set something in the back, my head made contact with the door of the car and - WHAM - off my BAHA flew! It hit the pavement and rolled under my car which triggered some extremely colorful and inventive language from me. Down on my hands and knees, I retrieved the little guy and, with heart in throat, attached it to my head. Success!! It was none the worse for hitting the ground at maximum speed. Now, that said, I don't suggest that anyone start hurling their BAHA around with reckless abandon. <br />
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I am currently helping to rehab my in-law's 40-something year old house, which is providing all kinds of interesting balance challenges. The miracle is that I haven't fallen into a paint tray yet. But, there is still time...Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-82412537387614692452011-04-30T09:43:00.002-04:002011-04-30T09:50:47.530-04:00Happy AN-niversary!We are currently in the middle of renovating my in-laws house, after relocating them to Huntsville, AL two weeks ago. So, I woke up this morning aching in just about every part of my body, thinking - "wow, I feel like crap." And, then it occurred to me that exactly three years ago today I was about two hours in to a roughly 6 hour brain surgery. Hm, that makes today's aches and pains feel a little less achy and painy. The TRUE definition of "feeling like crap" is when you wake up in a noisy recovery room in a major NYC hospital, with a tight (really tight) pressure dressing around your head, pink "oops" tray nestled under your chin, another dressing on your belly, head swelled up to the size of the Goodyear Blimp, and tubes and wires hanging out of every part of your body. Yep, that will always and forever define "crap" for me!<br />
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Yep, that puts a good perspective things. Three years later, I am adept at avoiding balance-challenging situations, a master at the head-swivel to hear what people on my deaf side are saying, and relatively good at keeping food in my mouth where it belongs. I will celebrate the day by arming myself with paint and spackle and doing battle with "the house." Then, later today, I plan to open up a bottle of something nice (and, no, I'm not talking Coke, folks) and celebrating my AN-niversary! Care to join me?Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-59574550745582154982011-03-09T09:52:00.000-05:002011-03-09T09:52:40.377-05:00Three Years...It is hard to believe that it has been three years since I heard those fateful words "You've got a brain tumor." I was diagnosed March 4, 2008. Three years ago, I was in a frenzy of researching and discovery. Things like craniatomies, neuro-muscular facial retraining, and bahas were completely foreign to me. <br />
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Now I am sitting here with a little digital box snapped on the side of my head, lots of titantium in my skull, a sometimes goofy smile and a few interesting scars. Holy crap. These are the things that come along in life that are completely unexpected and certainly game-changing. <br />
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As for me, I've had some ups and downs in the last 3 years, but I'd have to say that the ups outweigh the downs by quite a lot. When things like this come along in life, you really only have a few choices: you can adjust and find things to love (or at least like) about your new life, or you can sink into a vat of endless depression. Well, when I put it like that, not really much of a choice, is there? Those vats of depression are actually pretty boring. So now I just chuckle when I suddenly stumble or when I think the host of American Idol said "stink bombs" when he actually said "stage moms." And, when I get frustrated that I can't do everything I could do PBT (Pre Brain Tumor), I remind myself of all the wonderful people I've met along this journey, about the lasting friendships I've made, and about all the little things in life that have changed in good ways. <br />
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And, hell, if all else fails, I can always have a nice glass of something red - and I'm not talking fruit punch!Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-50278004706648731382011-03-01T11:33:00.000-05:002011-03-01T11:33:15.521-05:00(B)AHA MomentsSo, not quite a week into the BAHA experience and so far, I'm loving it. Yes, I'm the woman with a finger in one ear, snapping her fingers next to the other ear. It's just SO cool to be able to hear those sounds! <br />
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Today, I'll really get to put it to the test. I have to take our conspiracy theorist cat, Rocket, to the vet. Now, just as a bit of background, this is a 12 pound cat who requres two burly technicians to hold him down for a simple exam. And, did I mention the screaming? Him, not me, by the way, although maybe I ought to consider screaming myself. Anyway, I anticipate reaching up and turning the BAHA off at some point during what promises to be a very "lively" experience. <br />
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And here are few other pictures, just for fun.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh71CEzYDpKDbVkTywQ1yBq7FPuEC2FG2KSPShFRmT0FArGN0b0l9Hl6-eLRD5Rm-4YTbUlBT6O4T86tjMYlLnQvS7WKazXlgxpaACD2oHuZidtA-8gQgdKzigbJ0Si_CuaGVS6sFoPMpY/s1600/CIMG2283.JPG" imageanchor="1" style=""><img border="0" height="200" width="168" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh71CEzYDpKDbVkTywQ1yBq7FPuEC2FG2KSPShFRmT0FArGN0b0l9Hl6-eLRD5Rm-4YTbUlBT6O4T86tjMYlLnQvS7WKazXlgxpaACD2oHuZidtA-8gQgdKzigbJ0Si_CuaGVS6sFoPMpY/s200/CIMG2283.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXvN2hSKFjrFs5PFKxNBxWk9Z3dJ5L59DuFq7wlAg2niDKluODsMvm6Ye_X0vy2iicH9MJn_zRMB2u6HMmWdXCf5dOz4xOuiDOa5Ww3b8Kt2IeMhyIQR54iVY5OlvGu3BK7bIXb0vAUNQ/s1600/CIMG2286.JPG" imageanchor="1" style=""><img border="0" height="150" width="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXvN2hSKFjrFs5PFKxNBxWk9Z3dJ5L59DuFq7wlAg2niDKluODsMvm6Ye_X0vy2iicH9MJn_zRMB2u6HMmWdXCf5dOz4xOuiDOa5Ww3b8Kt2IeMhyIQR54iVY5OlvGu3BK7bIXb0vAUNQ/s200/CIMG2286.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsfJMR5fY3WclQyRl5sJApEPB5zXoNMTU82VgnGZvflP4uUz7ZCNdz2duoqdzQgm8xcVbPPryr0KBsuMkNZUcoySrQ0ga8-75PuZKTszqsYFJoKhpvOIztDXoW0WZCA4OdwlQGNlew6Yc/s1600/Size+of+baha+bp3+%25281%2529.JPG" imageanchor="1" style=""><img border="0" height="133" width="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsfJMR5fY3WclQyRl5sJApEPB5zXoNMTU82VgnGZvflP4uUz7ZCNdz2duoqdzQgm8xcVbPPryr0KBsuMkNZUcoySrQ0ga8-75PuZKTszqsYFJoKhpvOIztDXoW0WZCA4OdwlQGNlew6Yc/s200/Size+of+baha+bp3+%25281%2529.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieOSjqxiV5XQ3yO6oJCcQshOU4co1tBzv8boGDdAxFCmhzkwKwNtYRQ_oBgUvDWYZf8PShnobTxK3z56r2FAVHxxtKFOE02b5CyguvWDiJlZJQUFGIq4UaG-5gQnztgUkPE2jqQQRzJyI/s1600/Size+of+baha+bp3+%25282%2529.JPG" imageanchor="1" style=""><img border="0" height="133" width="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieOSjqxiV5XQ3yO6oJCcQshOU4co1tBzv8boGDdAxFCmhzkwKwNtYRQ_oBgUvDWYZf8PShnobTxK3z56r2FAVHxxtKFOE02b5CyguvWDiJlZJQUFGIq4UaG-5gQnztgUkPE2jqQQRzJyI/s200/Size+of+baha+bp3+%25282%2529.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3wKF5-Nib7Ketn3XUrQl0svLmSX7-ZhSUhQmVfL_SvDjhocGweNacq1wC8xgcNw1vhxt8_6c8J3Ru40apdMTHJvj5QkDH0WZwN2pjX_WcmkmGEOuOlfGcdFFsMrc1S6myQSBEoh1cr70/s1600/Size+of+baha+bp3+%25283%2529.JPG" imageanchor="1" style=""><img border="0" height="133" width="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3wKF5-Nib7Ketn3XUrQl0svLmSX7-ZhSUhQmVfL_SvDjhocGweNacq1wC8xgcNw1vhxt8_6c8J3Ru40apdMTHJvj5QkDH0WZwN2pjX_WcmkmGEOuOlfGcdFFsMrc1S6myQSBEoh1cr70/s200/Size+of+baha+bp3+%25283%2529.JPG" /></a></div>Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-86197518888196748872011-02-25T15:29:00.001-05:002011-02-25T16:29:23.397-05:00Gotcha Day!In the acoustic neuroma, single side deaf community, "Gotcha Day" is code for "I got my BAHA!" So, yes, I now officially look like a Borg.<br />
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After last week's snafu with the processor, the people at NYU Med and Cochlear jumped through hoops and got my processor shipped out and squeezed me into the schedule on Wednesday. So, bright and early Weds morning I headed to the train station to make the long trek into NYC and across town <br />
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to NYU. The audiologist went through all of the instructions for the baha, including how to get the thing snapped onto my head (easier said than done, my friends!) After arming me with as much knowlege as possible, she sent me on my way with a warning to remove the device if I felt that the sensory input was too much at any point. She reminded me several times that my brain has had 3 years to get used to NOT hearing on that side, so it would need longer than 15 minutes to acclimate to the BAHA.<br />
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I am happy to say that I walked across town (about a mile on the noisy streets of NYC) to the train station and took the 2-hour train ride home without incident. Then, I insisted that Willie take me out for dinner just so that I could take the BAHA for a test drive in a restaurant situation.<br />
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I must say that this device is exceeding my expectations! It is really amazing how well it works! I find myself plugging my "good" ear at odd times during the day just so that I can hear things through the BAHA. The sound is different, quite tinny. But the kind of amazing thing is that as soon as my good ear kicks in, I don't hear the tinniness of the BAHA anymore. Had lunch with a group of friends yesterday and kept surrepticiously reaching up and blocking my good ear just so that I could revel in the sensation of hearing everyone from my digital ear. Very, very cool!<br />
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On the down side, my hair doesn't hide it quite as well as I would have liked, but what the hell. I went around with a half paralyzed face for quite a few months, so walking around with a Borg-like device snapped to the side of my head isn't such a big deal. If anyone has school-aged kids, I am the ULTIMATE Show-and-Tell prop.<br />
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So here are some pictures, for those of you who aren't acquainted with the baha... First shows the processor through my hair (I pulled my hair aside for this, usually it wouldn't show), the next gives you and idea as the size, compared to a US quarter, and the last is just another close look at my nifty digital ear... <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtkDYvXofHAxP12P59Y1OD6d1CqqA-o6i16hrq1x9hvS87neUfJIjx7SLDxWHfgoeJ-miYpjN_Kvoh8tGNsW4aWjtjaTRh4cp4b4-6fI-33m0MV9cDrMgO-Dm0HqF7AImRUPa26U_jeE4/s1600/Baha1+2-25-2011+4-16-24+PM.JPG" imageanchor="1" style=""><img border="0" height="200" width="199" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtkDYvXofHAxP12P59Y1OD6d1CqqA-o6i16hrq1x9hvS87neUfJIjx7SLDxWHfgoeJ-miYpjN_Kvoh8tGNsW4aWjtjaTRh4cp4b4-6fI-33m0MV9cDrMgO-Dm0HqF7AImRUPa26U_jeE4/s200/Baha1+2-25-2011+4-16-24+PM.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeVWk7jRXsjguaLgMn4i_DBqNeYLP57irX5O2pw_75-CrevIP9geAmJKoD9suuintchE6naSpDKaLXh6cnb7SixYqw6Uuq7pOl5_sOMmagU2K3JMR1R3_zQYhsYdh0EiU-CpKA7zE3Wfs/s1600/baha4.jpg" imageanchor="1" style=""><img border="0" height="200" width="158" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeVWk7jRXsjguaLgMn4i_DBqNeYLP57irX5O2pw_75-CrevIP9geAmJKoD9suuintchE6naSpDKaLXh6cnb7SixYqw6Uuq7pOl5_sOMmagU2K3JMR1R3_zQYhsYdh0EiU-CpKA7zE3Wfs/s200/baha4.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEikITIQIVJIEteJxv2JHUHLfri2fL5ECWj5nH6H8W0WjcqBfJIGKSTU6VFsanEYw9DLHYIypnsH7QRWzXDDN6vNbFyyLfUQ6o28m4qJq9OGGroAJ7WCX0x9qyesYK7i9xlY756wfR7hzGQ/s1600/Baha2+2-25-2011+4-16-53+PM.JPG" imageanchor="1" style=""><img border="0" height="150" width="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEikITIQIVJIEteJxv2JHUHLfri2fL5ECWj5nH6H8W0WjcqBfJIGKSTU6VFsanEYw9DLHYIypnsH7QRWzXDDN6vNbFyyLfUQ6o28m4qJq9OGGroAJ7WCX0x9qyesYK7i9xlY756wfR7hzGQ/s200/Baha2+2-25-2011+4-16-53+PM.JPG" /></a></div>Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-84211604911167298342011-02-16T14:40:00.001-05:002011-02-16T16:50:43.831-05:00B DAYWell I just got done writing a post about how tomorrow was my long-awaited BAHA day. Unfortunately, the stars are not aligning for me this week. I just got a call from the audiologist's office basically saying, "oops, we screwed up and we don't have your BAHA processor after all.". (Insert long string of curse words here.) And, of course, they don't know how long it will take to arrive, so I have no idea when I will be able to reschedule. So, it looks like it will be awhile longer before I have a shot at stereo hearing.<br />
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Stay tuned...Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-90012168026065784322011-02-12T11:50:00.001-05:002011-02-12T11:52:11.883-05:00The Tunnel of TerrorYes, I know, it's been a month since my last blog (wow, that sounds like the beginning of Confession doesn't it?) Anyway, lots going on here in the hinterlands of northwestern NJ. It is that time of year again for me (MRI) and that always makes me test the upper limits of blood pressure.<br />
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I am a claustrophobe. I mean, I have it REALLY bad - even reading about someone being in a small space makes me hyperventilate. Years ago, I had to get an MRI for my back. Not knowing the extent of my own terror, I sashayed into the imaging center and presented myself to the technician. She wheeled me into the machine ... and within 30 seconds, I was unable to breath. Whoosh. Out I came. Turns out that being able to tilt my head back and see out the top of the tunnel didn't actually help. I remember thinking at the time that I couldn't imagine how anyone could survive having their brain scanned in the Tunnel of Terror. I think I even felt some condescending pity. <br />
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So, you can imagine my distress 3 years ago when my ENT told me I needed an MRI ... of my head!!! Crap. My head in the Tunnel of Terror ... what could be worse? I demanded a sedative and then spent the next two weeks stressing about getting the MRI. Mind you, I wasn't the least bit worried about what might turn up on the MRI - after all, who the hell gets brain tumors, anyway? Well, you all know how that turned out. I survived the MRI and got "the call" the next day. Yep, brain tumor. Holy crap.<br />
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And, by the way, did you know that there is a special category of claustrophia just for MRI machines. Don't believe me? Go ahead and Google "MRI Claustrophia." Hah!<br />
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I am now a veteran of the brain MRI (I know, isn't it ironic that someone who is terrified to be enclosed in a small space has to get MRIs every year?) and I am here to tell you that it still scares the crap out of me. Yep, I still need to be sedated, and Willie still sits at the end of the MRI Table of Terror and holds my ankle. This is important because I need to know that I can be snatched from the jaws of certain death if necessary. <br />
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A few years ago, some well-intentioned person/s decided that developing an MRI machine that has a wider openeing and a shorter "bore" would be an excellent idea. And, it certainly is...for someone else. For me, there is no "bore" short enough, nor any tunnel wide enough to make me feel any less likely to die on the spot. Nope, I'm not falling for that "wide bore" crap again. That sucker is still terrifying. <br />
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So why am I writing about this now? Well, I just had my 3-year brain MRI last Monday (no scary white blobs - yay!!!!) And, now, lucky me, I have to get ANOTHER MRI this upcoming Monday - yes, on Valentine's Day. Happy freaking Valentine's Day to me. So while all of you are enjoying a nice romantic dinner I will be passed out on the sofa, spit dribbling down my chin, sleeping off the after effects of valium. Is it any wonder Willie loves me? <br />
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So would you please have a glass of something red for me? I'll be the one passed out in the corner.Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-29951550237485434152011-01-03T13:26:00.001-05:002011-01-03T15:51:47.782-05:00Beginnings and Endings<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhEPyHb9PvBYAB71l9sbnfolspv9E-XZxrS0XxtZMAb5q2r0oCbt2loYjKtGpzQPNo4z9Bb8ilYcoZHzX6HQlyVskxfefARh3hSEXE0wuHYAkcaOOKX7rT9sx7BE7ExxRmKe5rW0o1EACk/s1600/3.14+Carrie+%25281%2529.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear:left; float:left;margin-right:1em; margin-bottom:1em"><img border="0" height="160" width="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhEPyHb9PvBYAB71l9sbnfolspv9E-XZxrS0XxtZMAb5q2r0oCbt2loYjKtGpzQPNo4z9Bb8ilYcoZHzX6HQlyVskxfefARh3hSEXE0wuHYAkcaOOKX7rT9sx7BE7ExxRmKe5rW0o1EACk/s200/3.14+Carrie+%25281%2529.jpg" /></a></div><br />
A new year - time for beginnnings and endings. Unfortunately, yesterday was a very sad day, one of endings. After nearly 13 years, 7 of them spent in our home, our beloved collie, Carrie, left us. In addition to leaving behind a lot of hair (hey, she was a collie, after all,) she has left a hole in our hearts that feels like the size of the Grand Canyon. <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2I6MPCs46DI1phVDDLPs3LmBEbgRxHu1I6xvKSl7fC7R8WiSIDEQYVdbBWBxYbgEfLc4aLSDRcaSyQU58P2XzPyQfg-bafGF96Pwi1uomakrxB7ztlrkn53TNNZtefyoXR2ai7h4vhsM/s1600/4.5+Working+in+the+yard.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear:right; float:right; margin-left:1em; margin-bottom:1em"><img border="0" height="133" width="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2I6MPCs46DI1phVDDLPs3LmBEbgRxHu1I6xvKSl7fC7R8WiSIDEQYVdbBWBxYbgEfLc4aLSDRcaSyQU58P2XzPyQfg-bafGF96Pwi1uomakrxB7ztlrkn53TNNZtefyoXR2ai7h4vhsM/s200/4.5+Working+in+the+yard.JPG" /></a></div><br />
Pets bring us complete and unconditional love, along with guaranteed heartbreak (in the words of my grandfather.) Carrie became our dog in 2003, the day after Thanksgiving. Willie had always wanted a collie, and Carrie needed a home after her previous owner passed away. She was born February 24, 1998 with the rather daunting name "Clarion Millcreek Charisma." (Yea, you can kind of see why it got shortened to "Carrie"...) Bred with the intent of being a show dog, she didn't quite make the mark and was relegated to the status of breeder. Sadly, she also failed at that and ultimately became a pet. She had several homes before ours, which may have contributed to her anxieties. <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhm5Ft62wr_C-9Z7qQClJzroeJ2Ov4STX5WzOaowowQghW_FGDW3u5E6ukO7A90OaB4Drhn1fA7RfTxYCpyBrjTpt_enMDywqkmkIlDu-8X-OMmM3mptEYeDiDgDV5cGUDH6FFnkv2yEsA/s1600/4.17+Carrie2.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear:right; float:right; margin-left:1em; margin-bottom:1em"><img border="0" height="133" width="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhm5Ft62wr_C-9Z7qQClJzroeJ2Ov4STX5WzOaowowQghW_FGDW3u5E6ukO7A90OaB4Drhn1fA7RfTxYCpyBrjTpt_enMDywqkmkIlDu-8X-OMmM3mptEYeDiDgDV5cGUDH6FFnkv2yEsA/s200/4.17+Carrie2.JPG" /></a></div><br />
Whatever the case, that day in November she became our very own Carrie - for better or worse, 'til death do us part. We suspect that fate played a hand in bringing this dog to our door at that exact time. She was what some might call a "difficult" dog - her anxieties never left her and frequently manifested in ways that were troublesome, leaving in her wake a host of chewed up cameras, eye glasses, wood paste, chocolate, lemon hummus, and humongous veterinary bills. We suspect that lesser people wouldn't have returned her to the rescue folks. But in spite of her "foibles" (or maybe even becasue of them) she was infinitely lovable and she was ours for "keeps." And, while she loved me, her sun really rose and set with my husband, Willie. Carrie always knew when it was time for him to come home from work and would be there to greet him with crazy barking and a tail that, if it went any faster, would have caused her to become airborn. Those are the memories that I will keep close to my heart. <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHRiIYhIuoLLlS9O9BFqe81qtsNCjjc5JNVigg1hjBaYyN1r6UBVV-lz1GhKDPHkOkBGXtEKyDU68SUvPCXvN5aVKL4VO_mFGCQth4TumN4jD9Rg9vvg0n398yCnezpCcs0SphuVW_2TE/s1600/Possee+Gathering+August+2008+w+Carrie.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear:right; float:right; margin-left:1em; margin-bottom:1em"><img border="0" height="132" width="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHRiIYhIuoLLlS9O9BFqe81qtsNCjjc5JNVigg1hjBaYyN1r6UBVV-lz1GhKDPHkOkBGXtEKyDU68SUvPCXvN5aVKL4VO_mFGCQth4TumN4jD9Rg9vvg0n398yCnezpCcs0SphuVW_2TE/s200/Possee+Gathering+August+2008+w+Carrie.jpg" /></a></div><br />
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Carrie has been in failing health for several months and we both knew this day would come, but in spite of what the head knows, the heart is never willing or ready to accept it. At the end, you do what you hope is right by the pet, and you suffer the heartbreak that follows. Her last meal, provided by the vet's assistants, was chocolate and roast beef, two things that were forbidden food, but oh so tasty. On some level I am sure she thought she was getting one over on us, and I suspect she was smiling in the way that only dogs can smile. And, I am also sure that there is lots of chocolate, roast beef, peanut butter and other delectibles in the great beyond ... on the Rainbow Bridge. <br />
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Johnny Depp's version of the Irish Blessing seems especially fitting for Carrie... <br />
“May the wind always be on your back and the sun upon your face and may the winds of destiny carry you aloft to dance with the stars.”<br />
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And, by the way, Carrie - Phoebe the cat wants to know if you'll save some food for her... <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjAjbU_r694kxSfE50FsfIggSPBKsKdnwCd9mqg7gUqUa4QIOej2CulYbCh6c-nUcKmTgP5HglxwvDoPFCII8Cps_D0joMBGitUjtKrkcUAxeOLdnKcjXLgeQ8pXgrfpbqLv9sW3_Q19XA/s1600/2.9+Phoebe+launching+a+coup.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear:left; float:left;margin-right:1em; margin-bottom:1em"><img border="0" height="150" width="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjAjbU_r694kxSfE50FsfIggSPBKsKdnwCd9mqg7gUqUa4QIOej2CulYbCh6c-nUcKmTgP5HglxwvDoPFCII8Cps_D0joMBGitUjtKrkcUAxeOLdnKcjXLgeQ8pXgrfpbqLv9sW3_Q19XA/s200/2.9+Phoebe+launching+a+coup.jpg" /></a></div>Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-47720834068982031932010-12-31T16:21:00.001-05:002010-12-31T16:22:22.776-05:00Ciao, 2010It's been nice knowin' ya, 2010. But now, it's time to welcome a new kid to town - Year 2011.<br />
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Ah, but 2010, you've served us well...<br />
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Not one, but TWO trips to Wisconsin to see famed facial therapist, Jackie Diels, who worked miracles with my face. <br />
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After years of saying "one of these day" for years we finally made it to Ireland! The sheep and the Guinness didn't disappoint, but the real highlight of the trip was meeting my acoustic neuroma pal, Lorenzo and his wife, Sheila. That was grand!<br />
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2010, you also finally convinced me to bite the bullet (or is it the Bolt?) and take step # 1 in getting a BAHA. Yessiree, I have a big ol' titanium bolt in my head, just itching for a processor... (sorry, 2010, but the processor will be 2011's job)<br />
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Willie and I celebrated our tenth anniversary - yep, still crazy in love with that guy. The first 10 were so good, that we are planning to hang in for another 10. This time, however, without any brain tumors.<br />
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Lots of visits with family, which we plan to continue in 2011, of course. <br />
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So, thanks, 2010 - ya done good.Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-59670834608388330382010-12-21T11:05:00.000-05:002010-12-21T11:05:52.409-05:00An Acoustic Neuroma HolidayAnother holiday season is upon us (how the hell did that happen??) and I am taking a little time to reflect on life. I am also reflecting on all my wonderful brain tumor friends and the myriad of funny things we share. Who other than you would understand things like…<br />
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<b>Hugging</b> -don’t you just hate it when you lean in for a hug and just keep right on going? Sometimes taking the other person down with you…<br />
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<b>Bobbing and Weaving</b> -you are walking along, minding your own business, looking around at all the great sites and suddenly find that you have veered into the road or off the trail. This causes a spurt of adrenalin which causes us to try to quickly course-correct which in turns results in stumbling, bobbing and weaving. All very entertaining for onlookers. Although I have noticed some of the mothers grabbing their kids and moving quickly away…<br />
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<b>Drooling and Dribbling</b> – and if your facial nerve is still feeling cranky, how about that drooling thing? Yep, always nice to find out that you have a spaghetti noodle hanging off your lip … and that it has been there for the entire meal because the lip/chin is still pretty numb. <br />
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<b>Oil Slick</b> – for those of us who have to keep gel in our eyes 24-7, don’t you just love it when you walk by a mirror and see that you have a massive gel-slick on your face? Honestly, don’t you wonder what people think? We should make up a really inventive story … any ideas?<br />
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<b>Whirling Dervish</b> – okay, one of my personal favorites. You are in a store and hear your name being called. You start twirling around trying to locate the source of the sound. Doesn’t work, so the person helpfully calls out “over here.” Great. If I had directionality, do you really think I'd be whirling around like a freaking idiot:<br />
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<b>What I Think I Heard</b> – ah, so many funny stories on this one. Ever notice how “chocolate” sounds just like “talk a lot?” or how “caller id” sounds just like “celery…” So, for those of you out there who aren’t single side deaf, if I respond to you in some completely inappropriate manner, just smile and continue.<br />
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<b>Winking and Blinking</b> – This is actually a great party trick! When I get tired my acoustic neuroma-side eye either stops blinking entirely, or starts blinking out of sync with the other eye. It’s pretty funny and it totally messes up other people who now don’t know what the hell you’re up to.<br />
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<b>Nap Attack</b> – Who among us hasn’t experienced that sudden, not-to-be-denied urge to nap. C’mon, fess up. Some of you have been seen napping at the library, at the coffee shop, on a park bench … really just about anywhere you can plant your butt for a spell. <br />
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<b>Abutments</b> – this is a whole new realm for me since I only got my BAHA abutment about a month ago. It sticks out ever so slightly from the side of my head – just enough to catch the edge of that nice knit winter scarf… or the neck of the sweater that I tried to yank over my head in a single smooth move. Hm. Do you think anyone will notice when I have an afghan hanging off the side of my head? Maybe I can color coordinate it to go with the spaghetti on my lip…<br />
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Gosh, who knew a brain tumor could be so much fun and so very entertaining?? <br />
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Merry Christmas!Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-91327750767437620072010-12-18T09:34:00.001-05:002010-12-18T09:36:40.144-05:00Under the Category of "I need to get a life..."So, it's been a month since I got the little rod in my skull and the little snap-like abutment on my head. I am happy to report that healing is moving along right on track. Kind of wish my head wasn't still numb, but I guess I am used to it at this point. <br />
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A couple of my baha friends had told me before I had the surgery that once the sight is somewhat heeled, it is lots of fun to brush one's fingers across the top of the abutment and be able to "hear" it. Yep, all true! Now, when I am bored by whatever is going on in my world, I just put my finger over the abutment and let 'er rip! It is freakishly cool. So if you happen to be sitting around with me and see me smiling for no good reason, just take a look and see if I've got a finger pressed to my head.<br />
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I also discovered another new noise sensation -- if I snap on the little white plastic "healing cap" it makes a really cool sound as it snaps on the abutment. <br />
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Jeez, I really DO need to get a life, don't I?Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-50093026415613479152010-12-03T11:12:00.002-05:002010-12-03T11:26:43.921-05:00The Unveiling<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLAAK34LxW6e4dv1_C6ei_okok13SPW6qQLIOH0FRNygDe_UCLCFKlS8fCASojQZeoA5DA8pJIIw90yNwN1dp1HRitPUD2yqBb4X512LVsqY49KyCYXemTuRAr4HupCb1OdE2C9WutclE/s1600/baha_animate.gif"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 170px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLAAK34LxW6e4dv1_C6ei_okok13SPW6qQLIOH0FRNygDe_UCLCFKlS8fCASojQZeoA5DA8pJIIw90yNwN1dp1HRitPUD2yqBb4X512LVsqY49KyCYXemTuRAr4HupCb1OdE2C9WutclE/s200/baha_animate.gif" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5546493197429452802" /></a><br />This week marked two weeks since my baha surgery, and time to get the dressing off and stitches out. Went into NYC on Wednesday and the surgeon undressed and un-stitched everything and then proclaimed her work to be excellent. Not being able to see around the side of my head, I had to wait until I got home to be able to get a good look at things for myself. Eek. Did you know that I have what appears to be <span style="font-weight:bold;">rivet</span> on the side of my head???? Frankly, I am not sure whether to be excited or totally creeped out. <br /><br />Actually, it isn't as bad as I feared. The abutment is small, maybe as big around as a pencil eraser and sits almost flush with my head. That is reassuring as I would sure hate to get it caught on my brush... The incision is also quite small and eventually won't show at all. At the moment, the little bit of my head that was shaved for the surgery is starting to grow new hair and it itches like crazy. These are the things no one tells you about... <br /><br />I am trying to get an appointment scheduled for mid-February to see the audiologist who will install the processor and show me how to use it. Seems like a long ways away, but I am sure it will be here in the blink of an eye.<br /><br />One more step in the acoustic neuroma journey...Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750307775448453721.post-83844753466956058882010-11-25T09:05:00.005-05:002010-11-25T10:54:58.711-05:00Thanks ...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhoVBh08-xMWy6VFBH6Q-GRPO8hBIHv0pSe9CFSvATpe1QZTsHZz1ckt_wEaiSuM0ow-ML_Z64ymBa3JdmXAEsUQWJgvBVF08dx9nxpw65UizlH4a7hKuMdBsR7jmRYeWUSaA11VxsXMq0/s1600/091108-015546-233010.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 79px; height: 100px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhoVBh08-xMWy6VFBH6Q-GRPO8hBIHv0pSe9CFSvATpe1QZTsHZz1ckt_wEaiSuM0ow-ML_Z64ymBa3JdmXAEsUQWJgvBVF08dx9nxpw65UizlH4a7hKuMdBsR7jmRYeWUSaA11VxsXMq0/s200/091108-015546-233010.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5543512280327254466" /></a><br />First of all, can I just say how surprised I am to be staring the 2010 holiday season square in the face? Didn't I just put away the Santas and the Christmas decorations? And, wasn't it just a few days ago that I stashed my Reindeer socks for another year? As they say in the comics ... Holy Crap, Batman!<br /><br />Like most of my fellow Americans, I like to take a little time on Thanksgiving to really reflect on the many things for which I am thankful. Topping the list is that I am married to possibly the best guy in the world (yep, that's you, honey!) And, along with that, I am grateful that all of our parents are in good health. I'm grateful for my wonderful friends who've been there no matter what. And, I am grateful that God invented turkeys and chocolate (no, not in the same bite, but close...)<br /><br />And, strangely, I am even grateful that a brain tumor arrived in my life a few years ago. Yes, you read that right. And, no, I haven't lost my mind. Of course, I am not particularly happy that I grew a "blob" in my head, but on the other hand, look at the amazing people I've met as a result of this! Would I have ever met Lorenzo in Ireland? Or Hrissy in Bulgaria? Or David in LA? Or Kay in Texas? Or Jan in Chicago? Or Lori in Virginia? Or Wendy on Staten Island? And, the list goes on and on. These are people I met when I was learning about acoustic neuromas ... they are the ones who said "I understand" and really meant it! They celebrated the victories and commiserated on the bad days. And, they still do.<br /><br />So, yes, I have a great deal to be thankful about. I shall raise a glass of Willamette Valley Pinot Noir later and say ... Her's to YOU!<br /><br />Oh, and I just came up with one more thing to be grateful for ... thanks to Wendy for telling me the the baha "healing cap" could come off accidentally and if it did, one could simple snap it back on the abutment. Thanks, Wendy - you just saved the surgeon getting an emergency page on Thanksgiving from an hysterical patient...Debbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770688058021305798noreply@blogger.com2